Passion of the virgins

Lately, I had been engaging in a rather fascinating topic which rather amazingly still exist in this 21st century; obsession with virgins. Despite all the advancement in all things around us it’s sad to note the evolvement is still not beyond the point where one’s sexual experience does influence on a person’s social status. Most guys, even though some might not admit openly prefers virgin women. Deep down, the male egocentric induced fantasy about having a “clean” partner ranks high in their wish list like the old saying, “Men like to boldly go where no man has gone before.” It is an instinctive behavior ingrained in human males from thousands of years of evolution. A case in point, the muslim terrorists think that if they become a martyr they'll get 72 virgins in heaven, silly motherfuckers.

The current epidemic rise of obsession with female virginity can be attributed to many factors such as bragging rights and pride. Some are looking to be the one that is remembered forever assuming that woman has a special memory on those who took it, probably to boast their ego while some merely don’t want a girl who had been with tons of guys before. Innocent in itself is captivating, which is why so many guys like the 18-21 girls. The idea of an innocent girl untouched is just a great aphrodisiac for men. However, most scholars agreed that the main reason behind this is no doubt the result of lacking in sexual confidence. It’s just as simple as she won't know if he sucks in bed because she has no expectations of what to expect.

The funny fact is most guys are virgins whilst girls are not, such impossibility do happen. Trust me; I can confirm that guys hate to be virgins. There’s nothing more fatal than death to be named the 30-year old virgin. Whether you like it or not there are more virgin men then women and as we all know they (referring to both virgin men and women) are actually endangered species on the verge of extinction with the new generation at hand, how sad.

Anyway, this obsession has to be put to an end. My point is does it really matters so much? If you’re attracted to that person, would you change your mind just because of her virginity status? I doubt it. Does it make you love her more or less if she’s a virgin? I doubt it. Does it make you more or less of a person if you've had sex or not? I doubt it either. Some skeptics have suggested that I only say this because it rhymes. Well, it does rhymes but the point is does it makes any difference? I doubt it.

For me, I’m not part of the number of men who are obsessed with virgins. Yes, you heard me and I’m not writing this to impress. It’s just not important to me, insignificant if compared to her personality and attitude towards life and things like that. I am happy for the girl if she has not succumbed to peer pressure or hormonal love but I can't see how it affects our relationship. If I had the choice, I would wait for someone that I truly cared about and expecting them to do the same for me. Sometimes you made the right choices sometimes you made the wrong choices bla bla bla, it’s all part of the continuing learning process just as long as it ends the right way, I hope it does and I won’t bored you with further details. Nonetheless, women who are still virgins today get my ultimate respect and adoration, I’m aware some is waiting to give something special to her husband that no other guy can say he’s had and that itself deserved much more respect than silly “whores” out there who fuck for a free dinner and a few glasses of COCKtails and as for men who are still virgins today, you deserved it too because it shows you have self control and restraint.

Am I giving moral-fibre statement here? Cosmic order of the Universal Morality/Spiritual perhaps? Or perhaps my inner holiness takes precedent over my inner ability to stop thinking in a very inner modest way? Or perhaps I prefer women who have some experience and know what she’s doing. Truth unveiled at last! Ahaaa……….